"Occupation" of parents learned in school

AT SCHOOL, PARENTS CAN ANSWER MANY QUESTIONS ON THE PROPER WAY TO RAISE CHILDREN IN THE FIRST TWO YEARS OF LIFE

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It is the third lecture in a series of twelve such. Classes can be "student" all parents who have children up to the age of 6-7 years, or those who are expected to be parents. This does not mean that others are excluded. Roza, 40, works at the museum and has two young children. He does not hesitate to raise his hand to ask questions.After that, others follow. The atmosphere is warm, mothers and fathers of young children begin to talk among themselves. There are those who take notes. Other exchange phone numbers or listen for any prescription for abdominal pain their boy or something new for the food. On lectures treat for all the concerns that can have parents, breastfeeding, toys or weeping. In other cities in different countries of Europe, are so-called "cooking Communities", the rock of cooked dishes among new mothers or "coffee parents" were easily enjoying the coffee can swap experiences. Parents go to school to become a parent, or to do better this "craft". A US study conducted on 1000 parents, explains that two such (mothers more than fathers find themselves inappropriately at least once in the first two years of a child's life) are afraid that they have chosen nest wrong or the child does not eat enough, that grows many pet or who do not feel the love of parents. But not to be suitable not mean it can not solve these fears: on the contrary, schools are designed and conducted to normal parents, newlyweds, and singles or young people. So for all those who wish to obtain through what they learn it is not as difficult as it seems to raise a child. Many pairs of panic about having a baby and pushing this age as late as possible. But like everything else, experience is important. "The meeting between old parents, young ones and those who want to be in a classroom is very important. You feel you are not inconvenient to do this duty is not something negative. Thus becoming the first steps. No parent is perfect "show teachers who are parents, researchers, psychologists. The first schools to become parents opened in Italy a few years ago. This practice is then distributed in many European countries, including France, Britain, Germany or America. Besides school offered special courses for those who want to learn the best exercise this "profession". Many of them are free, but when are private, have to pay for services received. Also, school attendance occasionally allow both parents. "Now times have changed. Parents should learn to be self pediatrician to care for vaccines or food. Moreover, every child is different from another, to those who have experienced the second, banks must return to learn "show psychologists. "Today we parents invest more in children and often this investment is many times greater than in the past. For this reason we feel the need to study, "says psychologist Paola Milan, which sees more than reasonable that new parents return to the bank to talk about nappies, food and" playstation ". Many are curious who want to know what really can be taught in schools. "We do not give ready recipes, but try to convince anyone that has the ability to draw within yourself. We want parents to create a strong bond with children and in the end, the children have a mother or father more capable in this 'profession'. There is unfit parents, but only people who can learn, have doubts or fears, "she further. However, for those who can not attend these schools dot because of the time and multiple commitments, there are alternative ways to learn. Everywhere you can find hundreds of books and manuals for behavior and childcare.

difficulties

•  65% of mothers
• 42% of fathers

THEY FELT INADEQUATE IN THE FIRST 24 MONTHS OF LIFE OF CHILDREN

The most common fears

31% - LEAVE THE CHILD ALONE OR IN INAPPROPRIATE PLACES

48% - DO SOMETHING THAT CAN AFFECT HEALTH

18% - THEY FEAR THAT KNOWS NOT TO FEED PROPERLY